Moving on from a lost friendship.

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At the end of 2016, I realized that friendships can end at any time and sometimes, with little explanation as to why. No matter how hard I try to make it work but if the other side gives up on it, then there’s nothing worth saving.

Friend: I need some space

I hate the word ‘space’. ugh.
I hate the sentence ‘give me some space’… it leaves me wondering because I don’t know how long and when should I try to lessen the gap of the ‘space’. I’ve always thought ‘talking things out’ is one of the best way to solve a conflict but alas, people can change? Losing a friend is not something that I want to experience often.

I love my little set of friends. I appreciate them and who they are – inside and out. So, 2016 wasn’t so bad after all…

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How about you? I hope you and your friends cherish each other even more in 2017. I hope your friendships bloom like flowers.

Maybe

So, life fell apart,
Love let you down,
People walked away,
You found yourself broken,
Shattered into pieces.

Maybe;
you don’t need to wait for someone to glue you back together,
Maybe;
you are capable of picking up the pieces,
Maybe;
you have the strength in you all this time,
to lift all the heavy burden on your shoulders,
Maybe;
you realize that you don’t need validation from anyone,
Maybe;
Finally, you learn to embrace who you are.