Moving on from a lost friendship.


At the end of 2016, I realized that friendships can end at any time and sometimes, with little explanation as to why. No matter how hard I try to make it work but if the other side gives up on it, then there’s nothing worth saving.

Friend: I need some space

I hate the word ‘space’. ugh.
I hate the sentence ‘give me some space’… it leaves me wondering because I don’t know how long and when should I try to lessen the gap of the ‘space’. I’ve always thought ‘talking things out’ is one of the best way to solve a conflict but alas, people can change? Losing a friend is not something that I want to experience often.

I love my little set of friends. I appreciate them and who they are – inside and out. So, 2016 wasn’t so bad after all…


How about you? I hope you and your friends cherish each other even more in 2017. I hope your friendships bloom like flowers.



So, life fell apart,
Love let you down,
People walked away,
You found yourself broken,
Shattered into pieces.

you don’t need to wait for someone to glue you back together,
you are capable of picking up the pieces,
you have the strength in you all this time,
to lift all the heavy burden on your shoulders,
you realize that you don’t need validation from anyone,
Finally, you learn to embrace who you are.